Ambiguous Loss

Waiting………

For the pink line

To be seen

To be loved

To be

An line becoming an arc,

over time.

 

I made a list of losses, mine and others’,

And gave up, exasperated and exhausted,

losses too innumerable and a shit, voyeuristic task.

There’s community:

I am not alone

And

Others have endured this too.

But this temptation to draw their grief around me

is a cloak of minimal comfort.

 

The curve of loss moves us

ahead

somehow

Both fragile and resilient,

we are here

 

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This poem was dedicated for the losses we all experience, big and small, many unnamed or un/under-recognized.  May you, reader, find ease.