Check out various myth-busting topics around sexuality at the links below. All posts are now on Patreon (thank you, patrons, for your support; note that many of these are available for patrons that join for free as well). The titles to some posts are purposefully ridiculous and also cultural misconceptions – read the posts to find out which ones are myths and which ones might be truthful or partially truthful.
Please note that none of this content is meant as specific medical or counseling advice. If you want individualized information or assessment, please consult with a trusted counselor or healthcare provider. Further, this content is educational but is geared towards adults (though the content is not graphic). If you are a younger person wanting accessible educational information, please see Scarleteen (and note that I am not associated with their website)
From 4/22/24, Testosterone “Cures” a Low Sex “Drive” for Women (on Patreon; paid).
From 10/30/23, On Client and Counselor Identity Congruence (on Patreon; free)
From 10/9/23: Clit Assumptions, Can We Stop? (On Patreon; paid)
From 7/17/23: Trans Passability (On Patreon; paid)
From 6/26/23: The Term Cis (On Patreon; paid)
From 6/19/23: The Meaning of the Word Intercourse (On Patreon; paid)
From 4/15/23: What Lies Has Pop Culture Told You About Sex (On Patreon; paid)
From 3/20/23, Dental Care and STIs (on Patreon; paid)
From 3/5/23, Sex Should Be Easy (on Patreon; paid)
From 12/5/22, The Queers Have It Good Now (on Patreon; free)
From 11/14/22, Crushes (on Patreon; paid)
From 10/17/22, Gender is a Fetish (on Patreon; free)
From 8/29/22, Condoms Are Only For Penises (on Patreon; free)
From 8/1/22, Sex Rooms – The Next Thing We All Need (on Patreon, paid)
From 6/13/22, There Will Be Poop (and, Hopefully, Pleasure) (on Patreon, paid)
From 6/6/22, Talking to a Sx Counselor vs Talking to a Friend (on Patreon, free)
From 5/30/22, ORE (on Patreon, free)
From 5/23/22, You Are Powerless to Prevent the Threatened Abortion Ban (on Patreon, free)
From 5/16/22, Deceptive Ovulation
From 5/9/22, Doulas Are Only For Birth
From 5/2/22, There Is a Whole Month Devoted to Masturbation
From 4/25/22, Are There Kinky People in the Burbs?
From 4/18/22, Sexual orientation can be about so much more than your parnter/s’ genitals
From 4/4/22, Trans and Nonbinary Labels are the Same
From 3/21/22, Polyamory is All Rainbows and Unicorns
From 3/14/22, Comprehensive Sexuality Education Prevents Abuse
From 3/7/22, What is Up with Drag? (I *heart* drag)
From 2/21/22, Arousal is a Reflection of Interest
From 1/31/222, Access to Your Erotic Self
From 1/17/22, Healthcare Providers are Well Educated in Sexuality
From 1/10/22, If You Are Applying Moisturizer…
From 1/3/22, Sex Education is Inter-generational Justice (on Patreon)
From 12/27/21, Why We Must
From 12/20/21, Children are Too Young for the S** Talk
From 12/13/21, Sensuality and Sexuality are the Same Thing
From 12/6/21, People Most Often Have Sex at Night (on Patreon)
From 11/30/21, Sex is a Drive
From 11/22/21, we are doubling down this week with 2 related posts: Low Desire Means There is Something Wrong With You and PIV Sx Is Normal Sx
From 11/15/21, The Problems with Coming Out
From 11/8/21, The Wage Gap
From 10/25/21, How to Sx
From 10/18/21, They Isn’t A Correct Singular Pronoun
From 10/11/21, “I’m Alpha”
From 9/27/21, Queer Up Your Sx
From 8/30/21, How much sex you are having is a good indicator of your sexual wellbeing
From 8/23/21, Representing male sexual anatomy in film and media is p0rnographic
From 8/9/21, People with Disability or Illness Are Not Interested in Sex
From 8/2/21, Talking About S*x Douses the Spark
From 7/12/21, RIC: Common and Medically Necessary
From 7/5/21, Gnomes Are Signs For Swingers
From 6/28/21, Sex/Gender and Sexual Orientation
From 5/24/21, People Have Few Reasons For Having Sex
From 5/17/21, Conversion Therapy
From 5/10/21, STIs
From 5/3/21, No One Likes Vanilla
From 4/12/21, Adult Sex Education
From 3/22/21, Spontaneous Sex
From 3/9/21, Born This Way
From 3/1/21, Sex Positivity, see post on Patreon
From 2/21/21, Bisexuality
From 2/8/21, Orgasms, see post on Patreon
From 2/1/21, The Hymen, see post on Patreon
From 1/25/21, Pay Attention to Your Partner’s Words